Greetings! In this post, I really want to stress how important it is to have support. Once you’ve officially decided to begin the journey of healing, there will be obstacles. But you will overcome those obstacles if you’re aware of them! One of the obstacles is a chance of some people trying to stand in your way of healing. All the things I suggested in the previous sections won’t help much if you don’t surround yourself with love and support. If you’re struggling with Self-love, it’s definitely not going to help being around people who will put you down.
You not only need Self-love, but you need love from others too. Self-love is a journey, and it takes time and effort. You don’t want anyone making it harder than it already is. People who are just as hurt as you, sometimes won’t be very good at supporting you. Misery loves company, and they will sometimes try to get in the way of your healing. If you’re around someone who kicks you when you’re down, it’s best to stay away from that person while you’re healing( for good if possible). It’s not good, or okay, to let someone call you fat, ugly, stupid, dumb, loser, or anything else derogatory. Accepting that abuse will only cause you to doubt yourself, and stifle your progress.
Make sure to be around family and friends who will cheer you on, and support you on this rewarding journey! Let them be the ones who will give you that pep talk when you start to doubt yourself! They should be there to remind you not to talk down on yourself, and to set yourself free! Allow yourself to love, be loved, and to love yourself!
Healing is a difficult process, and it shouldn’t be done alone. If you are around abuse and/or discouragement, consider going to local support groups and/or professional therapy. People who are discouraging will often times even try to prevent you from seeking help, or moving forward. People who are miserable don’t like to be miserable alone. So they might convince you that it’s not your desire to heal, and you’re wasting your time. But it’s not a waste of time. Self-love will allow you to thrive in other areas of your life too! You will start to feel more confidence to set new goals, reach higher, and start new projects. You will never see your potential if you don’t believe in it! That’s it for now😊. It’s late, and I’m starting to fall asleep😂.
Love and blessings to you all!💗🙏
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